“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasures you seek.” — Joseph Campbell
Fear can be the enemy of exhilarating joy. Fear whispers lies at us:
“You can’t do that.”
“Who do you think you are?”
“Don’t even bother. You’ll just fail.”
Like a bully at the playground, fear pounces as we get the courage to try new things like the monkey bars. Fear taunts screaming you’re things like: Unprepared. Out of control. Inexperienced.
It tries to bind us up like a steer roped in a rodeo and hold us back from doing things we really love.
One thing I’ve always loved is music. Powerful music cuts straight through to the heart. My brain stores lyrics like novels of poetry. Some songs are like anthems reminding me to persevere when facing adversity, stay strong when feeling beaten down, or breakthrough on the journey to freedom.
I’d sing in the shower, the car, in the aisles of Target, but definitely NOT in front of a group of people. Maybe with a choir where I could hide out in the background. But definitely not solo. I’m no “Voice” contestant. And who wants a spotlight highlighting your every vulnerable note as bunch of people stare you down as if you’re naked?
I’d always admired people with the courage to get up on stage and pour out their heart through music. I even gave it a brief try as a member of a work band when we lived in Australia. Then, I got scared again.
Fast forward several years.
A couple months after our son Jenson passed away, I decided enough is enough with the fear factor. What’s the worst that could happen? Massive embarrassment or failure? While not pleasant, not life threatening either.
My daughter Sydney and I joined the kids worship team at our church. I started in the background, and now lead weekend services for the kids. Dancing, singing, and helping kids worship God. A powerful, purposeful rush and something I’m honored to be a part of. It would have never happened without a courage pill.
What is that thing you’ve always wanted to do or try?
Maybe you’ve dreamed of owning your own business. Maybe you’ve always wanted to travel abroad. Or coach your child’s sports team. Or create your own website. Or speak in front of a group. Or start a non-profit.
Whatever “that thing” is for you, take that first step. Do it scared. Body slam that fear to the ground. Don’t let fear win. Claim victory. You’ll often discover a hidden treasure on the other side of fear.
